The big one is that under Mormon theology both of you must be believing, fully active members to live together in the afterlife. When my nomo husband does go to church we discuss the talks. Joanna has written a good answer here. Like any woman I am a Medical Assistant I sometimes question myself and ask myself what I would do if "unfaithfulness" came across. She has opened my eyes to many parts of our national culture that are not in harmony with righteousness. In fact, your GF is probably one of the countless Mormon women who get married only to find out they have zero sex drive because of what they learned growing up. I figured he may still be finding his feet in his residency and as we grow closer, he might start putting in more effort.
We are still struggling to put our life back together for the sake of our marriage and our 3 boys, but it is a difficult path. The rest of it is all just the normal course of events for someone in this situation, but this isn't a good sign: If he were thinking about you, he'd contact you when he does have the rare free minute or two. Try a variety of dates. About the time I was ready to return for my doctorate a chronic illness hit. If she is as real deal as you say she is, she believes this also. I tried to make the marriage work but we were at two different emotional places in our lifes. Are they a functioning member in society.
Raising our children as believers is proving to be very tricky. There are many catholic families with these three main ethnic groups within it. The Mormon culture has mastered the forked tongue. You stop talking at all. This can be done. I think a lot of what you say here really rings true, especially the part about the Date Night. But I believe, doctor or not, a relationship is all about supporting one another and making sacrifices.
If everything she is taught is correct and the Mormon church is "true" she should be able to research any anti-Mormon books or movies and prove their criticisms are lies. We have a happy marriage. He hadn't realized it was the same weekend as my birthday, or even that it was a big birthday - 30. Doctors don't have time for anything really they are overworkedand tired all the times. To prevent problems from developing in the marriage over in what faith the possible children should be raised.