Katy Thorn August 13, This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. Shower sex is one of the most highly fantasized about quickie locations , yet remains one of the hardest to pull off.
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Both of you can lather each other up with a loofah and spend a while talking and relaxing after a long day at work. As turning on as having sex under the shower can be, it also creates an emotional connection between you and your partner. Now and then, both of you may not be keen to have sex after a tiring day. At times like these, getting under the shower can be the best thing to rejuvenate yourselves and feel grateful for having each other. So are you ready to have a wild time under the shower and feel connected at the same time? Having sex in the shower can be an unpredictable experience. It can seem like fun when both of you are horny. But a few wrong moves on a slippery surface is all it takes to make shower sex uncomfortable and not worth the while. Get under the hot shower with your lover and lather each other up with soap, shampoo or even a slippery conditioner up to the neck.
Have him wash your hair. It's like having it done at a salon but with someone you want to have sex with. Soap each other up and massage each other's backs. Imagine a massage appointment Have him towel dry you. At first it's cozy and then it's weirdly hot. And then you'll be ready to do it when you're dry and not shivering. Turn out the lights and light some candles for a candlelit shower.
Think about the most magical hookup you've had. Does penetrative sex come to mind? Or is it something else—a deep conversation, a passionate kiss, or a totally different intimate act that happened before, after, or in place of penetration? Chances are it's the latter. In fact, many people consider foreplay the hottest part of sex.